Today, August 8 is my wife’s birthday. I have wished her Happy Birthday this morning. I am now in KL attending conference while she is now in Singapore on holiday with my youngest daughter, Elaine.
I am writing this post and to “ launch “ this Blog in honour of my youngest daughter, Elaine. She has just turned age 3 on 28th July.
Elaine was born special; not because she is a disabled child but she was born premature ( @ 7 month ); underweight at only 875 gram and born unexpectedly at home, without any warning.
My wife and my baby Elaine was ferried to the government hospital in an ambulance and she was immediately housed in the incubator. The first few days of her life was precarious because she was suffering from infection, a condition common among pre-matured baby and jaundice. As parents, we were very worried.
Our emotions were on a ‘rollercoaster ride’ because our baby Elaine had to undergo full blood transfusion due to Jaundice when shw was only 4 days old. My wife was crying when doc told us the decision. Knowing the risks involved as she was just a tiny baby, we still have to accept the doctor’s decision.
After the transfusion, she was put on drip and no milk was allowed during the first week of birth! Her weight dropped to 755 gram……
( I didn’t want to take any of her picture when she looked really tiny and only 皮包骨. The picture above was taken when she was a few weeks old and look much better )
… to be continued

August 13, 2008 at 12:27 am
Hi! Kc,
Congrats! for starting the journey of blog…
I can understand how u and wife felt and reading it now is like its was just yesterday…
Thanks God for making pulling it through those moments of life…:)
Wish you have put Eliane latest pic and i am sure she looking charming, cute and sweet…
Keep it up and happy blogging…
August 13, 2008 at 10:56 am
Hi KC,
“Congratulations” for your success in joining thousands of new Bloggers in this “Mother of all Blogs” world.
I am glad that Elaine is now a healthy and normal child and may God continue to bless and protect her. Hope to see her pix in your next story.
Happy blogging and God bless you all always.
August 13, 2008 at 11:06 am
Hi Kee Chuan
You must keep this site for Elaine when she grows up. Children never understand their parents’ love for them. Use this blog too as a supplement to your business activities ! Better than just email.
August 13, 2008 at 11:25 am
Hi, KS,
Thanks for the suggestion. Never thought of that.
You & your wife are super-parents yourselves with 5-6 childen? ( sorry can’t remember exactly ).
Do share your wealth of experiences with others on PARENTING & children development, one of the main themes of this Blog.
FYI, my business web site will be ready soon. will let you know.
August 13, 2008 at 11:48 am
Hi Khee Chuan,
Congratulations on your new website.
You know I thought it was only recently that Luna gave birth to Elain and now she is already 3 years old.
Don’t forget to put up her recent photos in this website. We have never seen her before.
August 13, 2008 at 7:44 pm
Hi Khee Chuan,
Congrats on your new blog. Enjoyed reading ur posts. What a miraculous child u got there. I would cry too if something like that happens to me! May God bless u and urs always. Happy blogging.
August 18, 2008 at 11:11 am
Hi Khee Chuan,
Happy Belated Birthday to Luna and congratulations! now that Elaine is well is kicking. I didnt know about Elaine being premature and all, but being parent myself with my first born now at Elaine’s age, I sure know how its like when things like that happen unexpectedly.
How are you and Luna ? I met her at the airport the other day when I was visiting my outlet at the airport. Its been such a long while since we last meet… am organising a pot luck get together with the teachers and old classmates…. will tell you when and hope to see you and luna there.
please do keep in touch.
Teck Joo
August 18, 2008 at 7:06 pm
Dear KheeChuan,
I have been meeting your dad more often than you! From now on, I will no more picking up my son from No.4 as I have just changed job. Also met your paediatrician in Hosp Umum Swk DrTeh, and wish your baby all the best. My own sister’s son was also pre-matured, 7 months at birth and 1.5kg but now a naughty little boy very cute and clever. I am sure she will be a cute gal too…
Send my regards to Luna.